Let the Countdown Begin
Well, now that the parents know, you might take note of the little countdown I added today. Yes, that's really ONE, single, solitary month left, but we're doing things a little differently, so it's do-able. Is there a word for a non-secret elopement? Because that's basically the compromise. Since there is no way that ALL of our loved ones can be there, we're going to have a private ceremony with just us and two witnesses, and then we'll celebrate (and likely do a reaffirmation ceremony) with everyone later.

Please be nice. It wasn't an easy decision, because it's not exactly what every girl dreams her wedding will be like. But after much prayer and discussion, we determined that it's the fairest way to do it for everyone. And it'll make a great story to tell our grandchildren. :)